Monday, April 1, 2013

The Rules Are ACTUALLY Meant to Be Broken: A Note on Everyday Risk Taking (and Why April Fool's Isn't As Dumb As I Thought)



Today I want to talk about the familiar topic of risk taking. I’ve talked about it in many ways before, but today what is really inspiring me is the notion that risk taking happens everyday.

We just don’t always recognize it.

This afternoon I am going back to work after a 2 week break. My break has been restful but also filled with the business of my heart’s work, which has been the best part.

While I am looking forward to spending time doing my “survival” job (yes, it has its joys too), I am naturally a little apprehensive about letting go of the sweet restfulness that has settled onto my life during this hiatus.  Now that it is time for me to go back to an outside job, I feel something in me gripping tight saying that it doesn’t want to let go of this sweet freedom. You know that feeling after a vacation.

The thing that has been most special of all about this break was that each day I was able to settle into a flow and be true to my own rhythms. Honestly, most of my days are like that, regardless of whether I am working a survival job or not, but during this break I was able to recognize and appreciate it in a different way. I really settled in.

Now it is time to go back to work and I don’t necessarily want to. But I must.

This is what most people face everyday. I am thankful that I don’t work a 9 to 5 and that most of my time is devoted to pursuing my acting career. But every day requires a bit of, what I like to call, going beyond yourself, regardless of what you do for a living.  By going beyond yourself, I mean doing the things that aren’t really your preference, operating outside of your niche, having conversations that you don’t want to have, writing with the opposite hand, etc…

Every time we go out and do something that is beyond ourselves, we are taking a risk. AND WE DO THIS EVERYDAY.

Risk taking is not out of the ordinary.

Especially when as artists, we work in fields that are not our specialties all the time.  We wear different hats, we don different masks, and we take leaps that only a person wild and passionate enough to truly care about anything in this world would.

One of my oldest friends sent me a funny April Fool’s message just now. I didn’t fall for it, but it made us share a little laugh. April Fool’s messages are not usually something I associate with this friend. It kind of wasn’t “her” but I’m glad she took the risk to do something out of her ordinary to send that to me.

Now, I know that’s a really silly example of what I’m talking about, but that’s exactly what I mean. There are little risks to be found everywhere. We are already taking them everyday.

Take a moment to recognize the little risks you take everyday, the ones you don’t even think about anymore. Then when you need the courage to take a truly big leap, you’ll find that your strength is already half way there. You already have what it takes.

Now I don’t personally believe that we were all meant to be one thing, to always walk in a straight line, and to follow every rule. If you find that your life is a bit parched of the small risk taking acts, examine that. I’m sure there’s a crack somewhere that you could go ahead and step on. I promise it won’t really break anything! But it may make you smile, give you a bit of courage when you’re ready to walk out or sit in and besides, it’s always available.  

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